Sexual Health
How Often Should You Get Tested for STIs? A Clear-Headed Guide
There's no one-size-fits-all schedule for STI testing. Here's how to think about it based on what your sex life actually looks like.
Featured · Consent & Safety
Sexting Consent: The Conversation Before the Photo
Consent for sexting is a separate conversation from consent for sex. Here is the short, useful one to have before any photos move.
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Sexual Health
Why Am I So Tired After Sex? The Real Reason You're Knocked Out
Falling asleep after sex isn't laziness — it's chemistry. Here's what's actually going on, and when it's worth a closer look.
Sexual Health
How Accurate Are Fertility Tracking Apps, Really?
The app says you ovulate on day 14. Your body, possibly, did not get the memo. A clinical look at what these apps can and can't do.
Toys, Tools & Products
Strap-On and Harness Shopping: A Beginner's Guide That Doesn't Skip the Awkward Parts
Buying your first strap-on is more decisions than most people expect. Here's how to pick a harness, a dildo, and not waste money on the wron
Relationships & Intimacy
The Differential Desire Conversation: When One of You Wants More
Mismatched desire is the most common sexual complaint in long-term couples. Here's how to have the conversation without making either of you
Relationships & Intimacy
When One Partner Has Chronic Illness: Intimacy on Different Terms
Chronic illness changes the architecture of a relationship. Intimacy doesn't have to disappear, but it does have to be rebuilt on different
Pleasure & Technique
Tantric Sex Without the Incense
Strip away the incense and the mysticism. The tantric practices actually worth borrowing are simple, slow, and surprisingly grounded — and t
Identity & Inclusivity
Demisexual: A Useful Frame, Not a Limit
Demisexuality is more than 'you have to like someone first.' Here's the actual orientation, what it makes possible, and what gets confused.
Wellness Routines
Zero-Alcohol Month: What Actually Changes in Your Sex Life
A 30-day no-alcohol experiment is one of the cleanest libido interventions there is. Here is the week-by-week timeline of what actually chan
Pleasure & Technique
Receiving Oral Without the Mental Spiral
If you struggle to relax while receiving oral — the spiraling, the rushing, the hyper-awareness of taking too long — this is the piece nobod
Q&A / Editorial
Reader Q&A: "Polyamory Works for Him, Not for Me"
A reader opened her relationship two years ago. He's flourishing. She's not. A therapist on asymmetric polyamory and the conversation owed.
Consent & Safety
Sexting Consent: The Conversation Before the Photo
Consent for sexting is a separate conversation from consent for sex. Here is the short, useful one to have before any photos move.